i should nOT BE tuRNED ON BY THAT
(Source: its-always-funnier-in-enochian, via slothmerry)
Look at this cute picture I found of the dhmis cast.
The all look ready to kill someone
They most likely are
QUICK, PUT YOUR LIPS ON MINE IT’S AN EMERGENCY
ok listen it’s really nifty that “say your name and pronouns” is getting to be a thing in queer spaces but. lets talk about the etiquette for that if u are cis because i think maybe we should lay it bare, just so we’re all on the same page.
inappropriate things to say when asked for your pronouns
- "i don’t care about pronouns/you can call me whatever"*
- "call me whatever you think i am"
- [pronoun joke]
- "i’m a guy/lady"
- [anything about being cis]
appropriate things to say when asked for your pronouns
- your goddamn pronouns
*trans+ folks with no pronoun preference exist and u are beautiful twinkling diamonds shine on, friend, shine on
also: please don’t say “masculine pronouns” or “feminine pronouns”, just say the pronouns!
this is important. don’t be dismissive or trivializing.
but also shout-out to the questioning/not-out folks who panic when their turn comes around
Also (and this is something I’ve got to stop doing) is when you’re in a traditionally all-women’s space, and the only people who say their pronouns are the people who don’t use she/her/hers and all the cispeople don’t say theirs because it’s assumed or whatever.
Cispeople, just say your pronouns. Always say something. Don’t just think that everyone should know. You’re actively othering the trans people in the room.
call me princess once and ill have a crush on you forever
just one more selfie before i wipe all this off
he’s got his mother’s eyes, and his father’s chin… when will this child stop collecting bodyparts
(Source: meladoodle, via borderlinecute)